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5.0 out of 5 stars Deeply inspiring!
This was one of those books that had to sit and rest for a few days until I was ready to write a few words about it. It caused quite a turmoil inside me because of its powerful and courageous underlying message.There is no doubt that the author is an extremely intelligent and resilient person and that she risked her overall health in order to carve herself a life of her own, free of guilt and remorse.It's a stunning and often times harrowing account about what it takes to be truly authentic, how difficult it is to escape the spiral of abuse, both physical and emotional.At the end of the story, I realized that we need more awareness, more eyes and ears in our communities to actually detect and spot these underhanded abuses going on. This is not only valid for a community that is cut off from the mainstream society like the one described in the book, but it can be applied in any situation or circumstance. For that to happen, we need knowledge. Education plays a big role in spreading this awareness. We need the freedom to question, whether it is our parents' opinions or their behaviour, the allowance to question the very idea of a family and not see it as an untouchable taboo, and we need to address the false concepts of liberalism whether it is allowing belief systems or world views to run freely without boundaries nor any fundamental checks. The right to a basic education is a basic human right and can prevent people from being brainwashed. We need to develop better ways and measures to help, support and protect the victims and help validate their painful memories.The author had to leave home, leave a restrictive way of living in order to find an open and secure place where she was allowed to thrive mentally and emotionally and tell her story. There is no pill, nor fake misguided belief that can alleviate the pain of an abuse victim. Predators exist everywhere and sometimes the wounded bleed invisibly and never get to find their voice. I applaud the author for speaking up and for not sugar coating any aspect of her life nor the disturbing sense of betrayal by family members.“You can love someone and still choose to say goodbye to them,” she says now. “You can miss a person every day, and still be glad that they are no longer in your life.” These two quotes sum up perfectly what it takes to chose self-worth and independence over pretense and denial.
5.0 out of 5 stars Life turning to the world rather than away from it
I'd had this book sitting on my shelf for a while - it had been recommended in many articles so I had high expectations.The book was first published in 2018, it has 377 pages and 40 chapters. First impression is good as there are some top quality quotes of praise at the start.I hadn't appreciated that so much of the book would be about the author's childhood. Her education at home was very limited and she describes the varying levels of work she had to do to survive.The writing is engaging and the reader is encouraged to care about Tara. The narrative is first person so is very personal - you can't help but feel her experiences with her.Alongside the straightforward narrative. the reader has to look behind the writing as the motives and emotions are a huge part of this story. Tara rarely judges and simply accepts most of her life - it's the reader who is given the space to analyse and has time to stand back to get the full picture.Tara's life is hard to comprehend - she tells us about it sensitivity yet managing to retain a disconnect that appears to be her coping mechanism. She thought that everything was normal and that there were no options. Its inspiring to read about her small moments of realisation when she starts to acknowledge what is happening, accepts them as wrong and starts to consider alternatives. I was surprised there wasn't one big moment of rebellion away from her world but just small movements and tiny mind shifts until one day she found she had gone far enough mentally not to have to go back. This multitude of tiny steps are almost imperceptible until she learns to believe in herself - this creates a wave of emotion for the reader and it can be seen how life changing the process was for Tara.Brilliant account of a life turning towards the world rather than running away from it.This is all well written as a retrospective account and it is as I would normally expect a memoir to be - evenly paced and with a consistent tone. This book seems to do so much more though - at the start the narrative is naïve and basic, as the author grows the phrasing becomes more confident and articulate. This development is cleverly written.
4.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful nightmare, raw and emotive! The sharing of a journey of empowerment which comes at a cost!
A beautiful,loyal soul born in to a family with a paranoid father who reigns over them with the strength and faith of a higher power. His hatred for society's rule makers is overwhelming; coupled with his unwavering belief in Mormonism, creates a perfect storm for the innocent caught in the cross fire!With beautifully written descriptions of her treacherous journey from a brainwashed child at risk mentally and physically to her true destiny. A truly fascinating read!
5.0 out of 5 stars Speechless
Probably the best book I’ve read all year. Hits you hard in the gut sometimes, but also very wonderful. Gave me a new perspective on many things which I’m very grateful for. Impossible to describe, just a high high recommendation from Norway
5.0 out of 5 stars A truly amazing story, if it was fiction or a film, you would say it was unbelievable.
An incredible life story of a young girl brought up in poverty by very strict Mormon parents. Abused physically by her brother, unprotected by her Mother and forced to work in the dangerous environment of her father's scrapyard. Little or no schooling yet Tara overcomes a world that is against her and goes far. I cannot recommend this book enough . When I first started reading it I thought it was a novel and was totally shocked when I realised it was a true story.
5.0 out of 5 stars fascinating read
Loved this book. A truly fascinating read and so well written that I couldn't put it down. Would definitely recommend.
Great book.
Well written and informative.
Touching and unforgettable
A memoir written in the most honest way I have ever seen, touching and unforgettable. Thank you Tara, God bless you 🙏🏼
Sensível e forte
A primeira frase já alerta para um livro extremamente bem escrito. Com o passar dos capítulos, o livro se expande. Além da escrita maravilhosa da autora, aprendemos sobre a sua vida: que história forre e comovente. Ao final, a admiração pela autora e sua coragem em escrever este livro dominaram, não queria parar de ler. Foi uma ótima dica que peguei por acaso na newsletter do Bill Gates.
A must read
As a teacher , this is a must read to try to understand there are so many parts of our students lives we know nothing about. Tara survived what not many of us could. God bless you.
Traumatic truths
Written with clarity you feel so strongly for Tara. If only she could have escaped sooner. It must have been painstaking to unpick the traumas she endured to be able to live a something near-normal life. And to become a professor through all that adversity in her life and lack of schooling is truly remarkable. Chapeaux I believe is the way to congratulate the author. Thank you for sharing your life story with me.
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